Experts in child development emphasize that you, the parent, can play an important role in starting your child off with the self-confidence needed throughout life. This self-confidence is built upon good feelings about parents, other adults at school, other children, and himself or herself as a worthwhile human being.  

Here are some things for you to keep in mind:  

• Recognize that the first day your child goes to school is an important event.

• Remember that learning to like school and liking to learn are closely related.

• Prepare your child for the new school experience by explaining what to expect and answering all questions honestly.

• Convey a positive attitude about school.

• Make transportation plans clear to the child.

• Create a normal routine atmosphere at home the first few days of school.

• Get to know your child's teacher.

• Attend scheduled grade level meetings to be informed about your child’s educational program.

• Plan your day so that you can spend time with your child. 

• Help your child cope with occasional frustrations and disappointments at school.

• Avoid comparing this child's school experiences with how brothers and sisters or neighbors did when they began school.